For many in our community, the end-of-year holiday season can feel complex. Routines shift, expectations change, and the sensory and social demands of this period can be overwhelming. And this year, in particular, has felt especially turbulent. Many in our community have shared that recent public conversations and policy directions have left them feeling unsettled, misunderstood, and worried about what the future may hold for Autistic people. We want to acknowledge the emotional weight of that, and to honour the resilience and care that our community continues to show in the face of it.
Here is a small gift from the Reframing Autism team – all the tips, downloadable resources, and relatable experiences of the holiday season we can gather from our collective knowledge to support you in creating celebrations that feel gentle, authentic, and neuro-affirming.
Whether your celebrations are big, small, or somewhere in between, these five practical tips can help create an inclusive and supportive environment for neurodivergent family members.

If your child thrives on clarity and predictability, our downloadable and editable Christmas planner can help them self-advocate for what would make a joyful Christmas for them.

A Community Guide to a Happy Neurodivergent Christmas (2nd Edition)
This free 78-page e-book brings together ideas, insights, and lived experiences from dozens of neurodivergent advocates, parents, and professionals. It features a contribution from Reframing Autism content creator and Autistic trans advocate Kai Ash, and is thoughtfully compiled by AuDHD counsellor and rewind trauma therapist Jade Farrington. Access the e-book from Jade Farrington’s website.

In this relatable piece, Reframing Autism Founder and Head of Research, Dr Melanie Heyworth, shares her family’s approach to building celebrations that centre clarity, connection, and joy, without the uncertainty of surprises.

This on-demand webinar brings together Autistic advocates sharing lived experience, strategies, and heartfelt reflections to help you support Autistic children and adults throughout the holiday season.
The Reframing Autism team would like to acknowledge the Traditional Owners of the lands on which we have the privilege to learn, work, and grow. Whilst we gather on many different parts of this Country, the RA team walk on the land of the Awabakal, Birpai, Whadjak, and Wiradjuri peoples.
We are committed to honouring the rich culture of the Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples of this Country, and the diversity and learning opportunities with which they provide us. We extend our gratitude and respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples, and to all Elders past and present, for their wisdom, their resilience, and for helping this Country to heal.