Neuro-affirming Resolutions: 5 Ideas to Help Autistic Adults Thrive in 2025

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The holiday season often brings significant challenges for Autistic individuals, and just as the new year rolls in, so comes the added demand to commit to resolutions based around neuronormative standards of success.

Plans to improve our quality of life are not necessarily a terrible idea, so what if we were to reframe these resolutions to reflect neuro-affirming goals – and what would they look like?

Neuro-affirming resolutions prioritse our unique Autistic way of being, incorporating our passions while prioritising health, safety, and happiness. These goals encourage us to thrive authentically rather than strive to fit into societal expectations that don’t align with our needs.

Reframing Resolutions

In this table, we reimagine common resolutions to make them more relevant and affirming for Autistic individuals. These suggestions are just a starting point to inspire your own personalised goals.

Neuroaffirming Resolutions

Putting Resolutions into Action

To support your journey, here are some practical ideas from our team to ensure 2025 brings with it an environment that plays to our strengths and puts in place the peer connections and professional support systems we need to replenish our spoons.

1. Explore opportunities to grow your passions.

Delving into your SPINs (special interests) is a fantastic way to boost mood and energy levels. One way to do this is to search through Class Bento, a platform offering a wide range of in-person and virtual art, craft, and culinary classes. For those with NDIS funding, many of these can be covered under social and community participation. See how to do this here.

If you’re not NDIS-funded, check out My Community Directory for free community interest groups across Australia.

2. Connect with neurokin and allies in ways that feel safe and comfortable.

Research shows that having other Autistic peers to support Autistic individuals is crucial to our community’s mental health. Engaging with others who truly “get it” can provide emotional support, validation, and encouragement, while also offering opportunities to exchange coping strategies and celebrate shared interests. One way to do this is to explore Neurokindred’s online Autistic-led peer support groups that provide opportunities to connect with other like-minded Autists in a safe space. View Neurokindred’s diverse list of online social groups here.

3. Help family and friends develop an authentic understanding of your Autistic self so they can better support you.

With over 13,000 registrants so far, our free, online, self-paced Autism Essentials course provides a neuro-affirming understanding of Autism. Introducing your friends and family to Autism Essentials equips loved ones with the knowledge and empathy to build a supportive, empowering relationship with you that celebrates neurodiversity and fosters mutual respect. For an Autistic individual, feeling truly understood can be very protective for our mental health. It nurtures a sense of belonging, validates our experiences, and affirms our way of interacting with the world. When those around us understand our needs, it creates an environment where we can thrive, free from the burden of masking or constantly explaining ourselves. Explore Autism Essentials here.

4. Use your Autistic strengths to make positive changes in my community

Common Autistic strengths such as passion, original thinking, social justice advocacy, and attention to detail, can make Autistic people invaluable contributors to community groups. These environments often suit our neurology, because they:

  • can be diverse in their membership, yet specific in their interests;
  • are often well-structured with organised meetings;
  • thrive on the passion of their members;
  • can benefit from our unique perspectives and dedication; and
  • offer opportunities for leadership and advance acceptance.

Find volunteering opportunities at Go Volunteer.

5. Find a Neuro-affirming Mental Healthcare Provider

Accessing mental health support that aligns with your neurodivergent needs can make a world of difference. When selecting a provider, consider their understanding of neurodiversity and their ability to create a safe, respectful space that prioritizes your autonomy and identity.

Reframing Autism offers an excellent guide on how to choose a neuro-affirming mental health professional. It highlights key factors like seeking providers who:

  • Use person-centered and strengths-based approaches,
  • Avoid deficit-focused language and therapies,
  • Respect sensory, communication, and emotional differences, and
  • Understand the importance of consent and collaboration in therapy.

For more detailed guidance, visit the full article here.

By making our own neuro-affirming resolutions, we can work towards a life that celebrates our unique strengths, nurtures our well-being, and builds environments where we truly belong. Let 2025 be the year you prioritise your authentic self, one step at a time.

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